Managing Money as a Couple

When you get married or start sharing a household with someone, your life changes—and your approach to managing your finances might change as well. The good news? It might not be as difficult as you think.

At some point, you will have to ask yourselves some practical questions when it comes to money—not just about your shared finances but your individual finances as well. Waiting too long to ask (or answer) those questions could have consequences.

Let’s discuss some important considerations when it comes to managing finances as a couple.

How Will You Set Your Priorities?

One of your first priorities should be simply setting aside money to help you build an emergency fund. This can help cover unexpected expenses without having to rely on credit cards or loans. It’s generally recommended to save about six months’ worth of essential living expenses, though that amount may vary depending on your personal circumstances.

Of course, there are other important priorities to consider as well. Should you open joint accounts, and if so, for which expenses? How should you title assets owned by both of you, such as property, vehicles, or investments? What are your long-term goals when it comes to children’s education, retirement, and estate planning? Establishing your financial priorities together can help you avoid misunderstandings and build a strong foundation for the future.

How Much Will You Spend and Save?

Creating a budget is a powerful tool that can provide clarity on your current situation and help you make more informed financial decisions. Whether it’s a simple budget, an elaborate one, or even your first attempt at organizing your finances, any attempt at a budgeting may prove more informative than you realize.

A thorough, line-item budget might feel tedious or overly detailed at first, but the knowledge it provides can be transformative. By breaking down your spending habits and identifying areas where you can save, you can gain a clearer understanding of where your money is going and how to better align your finances with your personal goals.

What Degree of Independence Do You Want to Maintain?

For many couples, maintaining some independence from each other is important to feeling in control of their own personal finances. Whether it’s discretionary spending, individual hobbies, or simply having a sense of autonomy, there’s nothing wrong with this approach. In fact, it can foster healthier communication and mutual respect in a relationship by acknowledging each partner’s unique needs and preferences. Building a financial strategy that works for both of you will be key to establishing trust and achieving your goals.

What Happens If You Separate?

While it may be an uncomfortable subject, planning for the possibility of separation is a practical financial consideration that many couples overlook. Prenuptial and postnuptial agreements can clarify how assets will be divided in the event of separation. Keeping detailed records of both individual and joint finances can also help reduce stress and confusion should the need for them arise. Maintaining honest and open communication can help ensure both parties are financially prepared, regardless of what the future holds.

Communication is Key

When finances involve two people instead of one, communication becomes crucial. Reviewing financial statements together monthly—or at least quarterly—can have benefits that go beyond just the financial. By engaging in regular conversations with your partner, you can stay aligned on your collective goals, address any challenges early, and celebrate your milestones along the way. This can help build trust and ensure you are both working towards a shared vision.

Conclusion

Managing money as a couple can be challenging, but by setting priorities, creating a budget, and developing a plan together, you can help build a strong financial foundation and set yourself up for long-term success.

If you have questions about your financial strategy or would like some guidance on creating a plan with your partner, reach out today to schedule a consultation.